The Beginning

Iam Gokul Rajendran, currently pursuing my Bachelors in Aeronautic Engineering.

Everything has a beginning, even Our World started with a Big bang. And here I welcome you to beginning of my blogs.

The reason I started this is, because of the passion I have towards writing. Being a Geminian I suppose, I do make creative write-ups about anything that comes to my mind. And I believe, there is something hidden in every living being.

This is the First time Im actually trying a blog, So I wish for all the support from the readers.

The Blogs published by me might be Small or Large, Serious or Humorous, Patriotic or Rebellious, Feminist or Masculist. Reviews and Suggestions to make my blogs better are always welcomed.

Thank You!

Featured post

Feminism today

Feminism, a movement started to support women’s rights on the basis of equality of sexes. But what feminism projects today has changed over the past decade.

It began as a movement to fight for economic independence, political suffrage and personal autonomy of women. It focused on establishing educational and professional opportunities for women that are equal to men’s. The movement became progressive, continuing to fight for equality in both public and private lives.

Feminism today has expanded to include every definition of woman. There has been legislative changes and implementation of rights for safety, education, work and ownership of property. Over the recent years, the idea of feminism has varied from what it actually meant.

The movement is all about giving women their choice. But most doesn’t understand what feminism is anymore. Today, it has gone to a level where the activists started to insult and ignore women who have voluntarily chosen a low risk life & career including motherhood. Many women distanced themselves from the movement for the fear of being lumped in with the stereotype of a feminist, a woman who is too pushy and hates men. The feminist women of this era began to post topless selfies in social media under the guise of female empowerment tagged #FreeTheNipple. ‘This is bastardization of the feminism movement’, says Barbara Crow, Vice President of graduate studies at York University. 

The movement has changed into a different way from what it did in the past, that most feminists themselves made the term meaningless. Women are made to act superior to men by doing everything men does and to believe marriage is done just to make kids.

Feminism have to return to its roots if it actually wants to represent them. It has to stand boldly for the best oppurtunities for women. Just because some of the upper class women got the rights and freedom does not make the movement a victory. Once a feminist reach a certain level of independence, they then fight only for themselves. 

Women deserve freedom of choice – the choice of their principles, priorities and politics. The feminism movement have to focus more on their choices rather than suppressing men. Afterall, men are also the allies of feminists today. 

What feminism has to do is increase the feminine values in society and spread love, care & empathy in our modern world rather than exposing nudity for equality and triumph over men. Feminists should change the attitude of protest and have to move forward with what is moral and right. Feminism shouldn’t protest for the rights by doing everything a man does, as women are created by God to do what men can’t do. Being unique is the key. 

This doesn’t mean that the feminism today is something wrong, but the way of moving forward with feminism should take a different path. Time has changed along with the lifestyle and mindset of people. The activists must come forward to ensure education for every girl child, raise against the women abuse and respect men.

Each and every women have their unique beauty, and beauty lies in the heart. Men and women are created different to perform different roles to live their lives. There is no need for a women to imitate men as the elegance of a women is defined by her exceptional character. Be who you are.

With all the respect and love to every women out there!

‘The’ India

All might wonder why there is an added preposition ‘The’ in the title. Many, mostly Indians doubted about the prepositions in The United States and The United Kingdom and why not ‘The’ India a long ago.

India is a democratic, socialist, secular, republic country. It is a country in Asian continent which is the second most populated in the world. Diversified in nature, it is a place where all people irrespective of religion or language, rich or poor, white or black live. From Aryabhata to Abdul Kalam, India showed what real brains could do. Even though having all the developed and intelligent minds, India is still developing. 

Living in India is beautiful when spoken in perspective of its beauty. Ice caped mountains, sandy deserts, canopy forests, thick metropolitan cities, green villages and what not, India is a place where one could see the nature in its profound and complete beauty. But how beautiful is it from the inside? 

Child labour, rape, terrorism, black market, drug trafficking, religious violence, cyber crime and much more organized and non-organized crimes happen over this beautiful landscape. Crimes are common. Also, Constitutional rights are often denied for the common people in India. Being an Indian isn’t something to be proud of anymore as all might think. 

Its been 70 years since India got its independence from the British rule. Till then India fought irrespective of caste and creed where one saw the unity. What happened afterwards is what all Indians know. 

Money ruled over the country and the ones who had the power used to control it for their personal benefit. Pity that Political and religious crimes happen in a republic country. Rape and harrassment against women is still happening in a country where women are considered as goddesses, India. Children who needs education are being forcefully made to work for making money. The politicians who has to serve the country and help people are indulging in crimes for their advantage. People of different religions fight over each other. Judiciary and Law has become something humorous, who does nothing against a criminal. Its a land where money and terrorism prosper. 

Change, is what India need. The change in the views of people, the change on their mind about what unity could do, is what the country needs. People need to realise that change is within each one of them. We, the people should bring the change we wanted. We should demand our justice, our freedom and our right. The power to make India a better nation lies in each citizens.

As Charlie Chaplin in his movie Dictator, said:

The Kingdom of God is within man. Not one man nor a group of men but in all men. You, you the people have the power.

A writer did his part of expressing for his country, for a better tomorrow. But have you? Its your time to change now. Next time when you throw a waste, put it in a dust-bin. Next time when you feel like wasting money, give it to someone who is poor and in need. Next time when you feel like harrassing anyone, consider them as someone who is in your home. We can’t expect a transformation when we aren’t ready to change.

Before concluding, consider this as something for every human out there living. 

We are all lucky to have a life. So be good, do good and feel good.

Also, my respect to all the militarymen who are protecting our nation and our lives every moment. 

Merci

The Depressed Teenage

First of all, I want to thank all those who read and supported my first blog. Being an upcoming writer, Support from all the wonderful readers is what all we need. Reviews are always welcomed.

Teenage. Every single human being has passed those age of Teens where, you are not a child anymore who could cry for the toys but also you are not an adult to judge others. Somehow you are being wanted to act tough, be smart and Matured, even though you can’t, also called The Transition stage of Human being. One could observe the pressure put up on every single teenager living in this era, what we call the New Generation!

 The World Health Organization stated that “Among two-third of Teenagers suffer Depression.” Its clear, they are not happy. Asking the question ‘Why’ to myself, the answer I could get was the lack of support, love and care from the parents and the society he/she live in. Like a black hole, the teenagers are squeezed, pressurized to be perfect. Failing to be so, they get depressed, arrogant or even much worse. 

Putting all the pressure and expectations upon the teens has been common. Blaming them when they couldnt achieve those, eventually lead to the depressed state of mind among the teens. It is always fine if teens couldnt score high marks all the time, afterall Men who couldnt study well had also been Legends!

Being in a stage of life where hormone growth are at its peak, emotions wander over the teenagers mind. Getting into relations and eventually breaking up and getting depressed is something most teenagers face.

Young boys and girls are just grown from their childhood. It is the time when they are to be guided to the right path, and there comes the role of parents. It is the time when they are to be given all the amount of love and support. It is the time to help them build a good character. And It is the time when parents should be the role models, appreciate what they achieve and make them understand the good and bad. Talking to them about what scoring marks and true love, is what that every elder have to make the teen understand.

Let the society give them the courage to deal with social problems and not compressing them emotionally to a stage where they wont feel interest in anything. Make them feel safe about the present life and teach how to deal with the future life problems, as there isn’t a life without a problem.

After all, Teens are the Future human beings. And for teen, Life is much colourful when they are on the right path with the right company. Love and Care is what all we need in Life and so do the teens.

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