Relationships, at present, are depending on the quotes seen and posted in Social Media. Do we really have to depend on that and apply in our relations? Or are we matured enough to understand the values of love and partnership?
This is what I have been longing to write about and I guess, this is the time.
We are not living a fairy tale life, as we have our own ups and downs, struggling in many ways. And definitely not living a fairy tale love story, having a perfect relation.
It is a beautiful thing, to fall in love with someone, giving all the care from your heart, wishing to live a life with the partner till last breath, talk endlessly, have good sex, support & understand each other and stay beside no matter what happens.
Lately, people have started to leave or break off all of a sudden because their partner didn’t come up to their expectations and moves away to find a new one. True, we all expect, and especially when in love, we really do. But the real question is, have you tried to adjust with the partner and understand what they been through or going through before leaving them behind?
Everyone have their flaws, the emotions that they couldn’t control and the problems they have to face. We have to understand the fact that, noone is perfect in real world.
As long as there is trust, understanding, good communication and an ability to adjust to your partner, and you get the same back, your relationship will be fruitful.
There would be times when you both wont be able to make time for each other, and at those period, ego rises to the peak, and you feel things are slowly fading away. It is always best to communicate together about the busy schedule.
No one is anybody’s slave. Always love and respect your partner no matter what. There is no right to torture your partner mentally or physically.
Just Don’t be Kalippan and Kaanthaari.
Maybe, you were forced to be in the relation or loved so much to move forward together. As long as there is love in the heart and care for the soul, with an understanding mind, you both can live long happily together.
Be with the one who stays with you understanding your flaws. Be with the one with whom you feel comfortable with. Be with the one who you want to be with.
Love the ones who love and respect you back with all their heart, even when closer in a room or miles apart. Be comfortable being in relation with each other, and open up your mind whenever you feel to.
No matter what the quotes on Social Media says, believe in your love and your self. We are not living in an ideal world and we have our own imperfections. Understand it, and continue living a life, happily.
Just don’t be in a relation just for the sake of having one, or to cheat, or just to have a lustful treat.
And if, you really cannot stand beside your partner, it is always best to break up the realtion and move on taking care of your mental health, rather than breaking them and yourself. If it fails, let it.
But first, love yourself!